This workshop builds on previous knowledge gained either from a Hold Me Tight ® workshop, or from significant experience with EFT-focused couples therapy.
Presenters: Lisa Blum, PsyD and Silvina Irwin, PhD
In Hold Me Tight® or EFT Therapy, you learned and practiced nurturing a deeper and more secure emotional connection. In this next-step workshop, you will learn how to enhance your sexual connection, cultivating intimacy, safety, healing, playfulness, and fun!
We welcome same-sex and opposite-sex couples who have experienced EFT therapy or the Hold Me Tight® Couples Workshop and who want to take the next step in cultivating greater closeness, intimacy and desire in your relationship.
When: April 13-15, 2018
Time: Starts Friday at 3 PM and ends Sunday by 2 PM – full schedule is listed below
Location: Cambria Pines Lodge, 2905 Burton Dr., Cambria, California 93428
CE units: 13.0 hours
Course Level: Intermediate to advanced. CE Workshop is aimed at same-sex and opposite-sex couples/practitioners who have experience in EFT therapy or have attended a Hold Me Tight® Couples Workshop.
Cost: $1,145.00 per couple (early bird) – $1,250 after Wednesday, March 14.
After participating in this workshop, attendees will be able to:
- Explain the optimal physiological state for sexual engagement of Relaxed Excitement where the PNS and SNS are both activated.
- List 3 strategies for promoting the optimal state of relaxed excitement.
- Explain the interaction between stress and the sexual response system.
- Describe the relationship between Adult Attachment Theory and sexual response.
- Describe the dual-control model of sex and how this model addresses problems of sexual desire.
- Describe the impact that cultural, familial, and personal histories have on shaping one’s sexual identity and response to sexual contexts.
Friday, April 13
2:30 -3:00 Check In
3:00 – 3:45 Start of program
Opening introductory remarks
History of how this seminar came to be
Overview of the weekend agenda
Introduction of Couples Exercises
Goals an expectations
Video – What did you see?
3:45 – 4:00 Couple Exercise – goals
4:00 – 4:15 Myth Busting
4:15 – 4:35 What drives us toward and away from sex with a loved one?
Make up small groups
4:35 – 5:00 Getting Back to Our Bodies
Play is important in sexuality
5:00 – 5:15 Break
5:15 – 5:35 More Ways to Regulate — Breath and Body Scan
5:35 – 6:20 Talking About Our Sexual Relationships
6:20 – 6:30 Wrap up and Homework
Saturday, April 14
Breakfast 8:00 – 9:00
9:00 – 9:15 Breathing and body scan
9:15 – 10:05 Exercise
10:05 – 10:35 Review Attachment Theory Main Points
10:35 – 11:05 Mindful Touch, Part 1
11:05 – 11:35 Break and snack – Tower Building
11:35 – 11:40 Recentering and Breathing
11:40 – 1:00 Conversation into the Sexual Cycle
1:00 – 1:15 Debrief
1:15 – 2:15 Lunch
2:15 – 4:00 Exercises on your own (no CE credit)
4:00 – 4:10 Reconvene: Debrief exercises
4:10 – 5:00 Models of sex
implicit model of sex [success = orgasm;]
What model of sex do you WANT to have?
Other models that have influenced us
5:00 – 5:10 Couples Exercise
5:10 – 5:20 Explain remaining exercises
5:20 – 6:20 Importance and how-to of sexual history
6:20 – 6:30 Wrap up and explain homework
Day 3, Sunday April 15
8:30 – 9:30 Breakfast
9:30 – 10:00 Welcome back and debrief on Day 2
10:00 – 11:00 Acknowledging injuries
11:00 – 11:30 Break (check out by 11:00)
11:30 – 12:55 Understanding Desire: Dual Control Model of Sexuality
12:55 – 1:10 The sexual menu – helping develop couples’ sexual life
1:10 – 1:20 Wrap up and summary points
1:20 – 1:30 Closing video
Lisa Blum, Psy.D. (PSY 19790) is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in promoting healthy family relationships. Dr. Blum has worked as a mental health professional since 1987. Currently Dr. Blum is in private practice in Pasadena and West Hollywood, where her work includes individual, couples, and family therapy, and consultation, training, and public speaking on family, marital, and parenting issues. She has worked extensively with parents and children, teachers and staff both in clinical practice and in community settings, and she consults to public and private schools and organizations to develop programs that support families.
Dr. Blum is certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in her work with couples and families. EFT is one of the few research-validated therapies for helping couples and families strengthen relationships and build stronger connections.
Dr. Blum’s previous experience includes: Supervising Psychologist at the Institute for Girls’ Development in Pasadena; Supervising Psychologist for Children’s HospitalÂ¬-Los Angeles; Staff Researcher at the UCLA Center for Adolescent Health Promotion; and Director of Education for the HiTOPS Teen Health Center in Princeton, NJ, where she designed educational programs for teens, parents, and teachers on healthy adolescent development. Dr. Blum holds Masters and Doctoral degrees in Psychology from Rutgers University and a Bachelors degree in Psychology with honors from Cornell University.
Silvina Irwin, Ph.D. (PSY 19710) is a licensed clinical psychologist and certified EFT therapist and supervisor in private practice in Pasadena, CA. Dr. Irwin specializes in working with survivors of childhood and adult trauma, focusing on healing and recovery at the individual level, as well as addressing the impact that traumatic experiences have on intimate relationships in her work with couples. Dr. Irwin also provides treatment for mood and anxiety disorders and relationship and family distress. She works with individuals across the lifespan, including children, teens, and adults. In addition to providing clinical services, Dr. Irwin conducts trainings and workshops for professionals in the community, including the police department, Office of the District Attorney, therapists and psychology trainees at various centers, and medical staff at local hospitals to name a few.
Dr. Irwin trained at Harvard Medical School, and at the University of San Francisco, California Medical School. She received her Masters and Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology at the University of Massachusetts Boston. Prior to her work in private practice, she was a psychologist at the University of San Francisco providing clinical services, supervision, teaching and training, as well as conducted research on best-practices in the treatment of child trauma.
Your workshop fee includes accommodations in one of the spacious rooms at the Cambria Pines Lodge Friday and Saturday nights of the workshop. Complimentary Wi-Fi and parking is available. Check out is at 11 am on Sunday. If you would like to attend the workshop, but do not need accommodations at the lodge, there is a “workshop only” fee for a limited number of participants. Please email The EFT Resource Center directly at email@example.com for the code to enter at registration for this option.
Meals & Refreshments
Your workshop fee includes a plentiful breakfast in the Treetop Room located on at the Cambria Pines Lodge both Saturday and Sunday mornings. Light refreshments and beverages will be provided during workshop hours. Lunches and dinners are on your own to be enjoyed at one of the many lovely restaurants the town of Cambria has to offer or at the Cambria Pines Lodge. We strongly recommend making reservations in advance. Yelp, Trip Advisor, etc. are good sources for restaurant recommendations.
Please go to the EFT Resource Center web page for more information about lodging and meals
Illuminated Education is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. Illuminated Education maintains the responsibility for this program and its content.
The California Board of Behavioral Sciences accepts APA approval for CE activities for MFTs, LCSWs, LPPCs and/or LEPs.
Outside of California, please check with your licensing board to see whether APA approval is accepted for CE credit in your state. Please call Dr. Cooper if you have further questions (626-744-9472).
REFUNDS / CANCELLATION
Cancellations prior to 3/19/2018 at 12 pm will be eligible for a 100% refund, minus a $30.00 processing fee. Cancellations after 12 pm on 3/19/2018 will be subject to a $550.00 cancellation fee, and the remainder of the registration fee will be refunded. HOWEVER, you will have a credit with us for the remaining registration amount to be used at a future workshop offered by the EFT Resource Center. This policy is the most generous that we can offer; the cancellation fee is necessary because of the commitments we make to the hotel or retreat center where we are holding the workshop.
For information about accommodations, please see the EFT Resource Center website (www.eftresourcecenter.com) or contact Dr. Chris Cooper (Illuminated Education) by phone (626-744-9472), FAX (626-585-0440, or email (firstname.lastname@example.org). If emailing, please reference this program in the subject line.